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“The Oven of Achnai”
Sermon for Yom Kippur Morning, 5771
Rabbi Jefffrey W. Goldwasser
Congregation Beth Israel, North Adams, MA
September 19, 2010

Even in the world of the rabbis of the Talmud, Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus was as “old school” as you could get.  He believed that the teachings of Torah he received from his teachers were correct for their time, and he believed that they would remain correct for all time.  From his early youth, he had always been the first to arrive at the House of Study each day, and he always was the last to leave.  He never engaged in idle conversation in the House of Study, and, he said, he never taught a thing which his teachers did not teach him [B. Sukkot 28a].

He also was regarded as a true genius of Torah—a man who was so adept in Torah that he could perform miracles.  One argued with Rabbi Eliezer at ones peril.

There is a story in the Talmud that says that Rabbi Eliezer once called down the power of heaven to strike a colleague blind for saying that the rabbis of his own time had created a particular law by majority vote.  Rabbi Eliezer then spent an hour angrily telling his fellow rabbi how this law actually had been handed down to him by his teacher, and to his teacher by a teacher before him, and another before him, all the way back to Moses at Sinai.  It was only after Eliezer had spent all of his energy lecturing his blinded colleague that his anger relented and, with his mind calmed, he prayed, “May it be granted that his sight be restored.” And it was. [B. Chagigah 3b]

He was a piece of work.  No one could compare with him in the ability to strike terror into his students and colleagues alike.  And no one had a deeper devotion or a keener grasp of the tradition of the rabbis who had come before.

All the years of Eliezer’s tyrannical behavior, however, came to a end when a controversial issue came before the rabbis.  The question was whether a certain type of oven was immune from becoming ritually unclean. 

Ovens in the second century were like large clay pots that were plastered around the outside to hold the heat in. Like all vessels that were used for food, ovens had to conform to the rules of kashrut.  If a vessel came in contact with anything that was ritually unclean, the oven would no longer be kosher and could not be used again.  An oven that would stay kosher forever, even if it came into contact with something unclean, would have great practical value to the rabbis and their community. 

Rabbi Eliezer believed that there was such an oven — the “Oven of Achnai”  [B. Bava Metzia 59a],  which was formed by taking broken pieces of clay and cementing them together with sand. The word “Achnai,” means, “a coiled snake,” and the oven’s name may have come from the way it looked, with winding loops of cement going all around it.

Rabbi Eliezer ruled that an Oven of Achani was ritually clean and that it was not subject to becoming unclean because neither broken shards of clay nor the sand in cement could become ritually unclean according to the laws of the rabbis. 

The other rabbis, though, were unanimously opposed to Rabbi Eliezer’s ruling.  The Oven of Achnai, they thought, was just a clever argument designed to get around a basic law of kashrut that they dared not overturn.  They reasoned that if it was used as an oven, it had to obey the rules for ovens, no matter what it was made of.

Still, despite the fact that he was a minority of one, Rabbi Eliezer insisted on his point.  He spent an entire day arguing before his colleagues with every argument he could muster.  In his mind, his position only could be denied if the rabbis were willing to state that the law as they themselves taught it was wrong.

Exasperated by his colleagues’ failure to agree with him, Rabbi Eliezer instead used a miraculous demonstration to prove his point.  He declared, “If I am right, and the law is according to what I have said, let this carob tree prove it!”  As the other rabbis watched, a carob tree standing next to Rabbi Eliezer lifted itself out of the ground, moved a hundred cubits away, and settled back into the ground.  Some say that it was more like four hundred cubits. 

The rabbis, however, were unmoved.  “Rabbi Eliezer, we make laws with logical arguments and majority rule.  No proof can come from a carob tree.”

Undeterred, Eliezer said to them, “If the law agrees with me, let this stream of water prove it!”  Immediately, the stream of water changed its course and began to flow uphill.

But, the rabbis said to him, “No proof can come from a stream of water, either.”

Again Rabbi Eliezer said, “If the law agrees with me, let the walls of the House of Study prove it!”  At that moment, the walls of Rabbi Eliezer’s beloved House of Study began to lean inward as if they were about to fall.

Instead of accepting the miracle as a divine proof, though, Rabbi Joshua turned to the walls and began to yell at them: “When the rabbis are engaged in an argument over the law, what right do you have to interfere?  You walls, stay out of this!”

Out of respect to Rabbi Joshua, the walls stopped falling.  Yet, out of respect to Rabbi Eliezer, they did not straighten up.  The Talmud says that, to this day, the walls are still standing crooked.

Finally, using his last and best trump card, Rabbi Eliezer said, “If the law agrees with me, let it be proved by Heaven!”  The rabbis at this point could not have been surprised when a voice came down from heaven and declared:  “Why are you arguing with Rabbi Eliezer.  Don’t you know that he never forgets anything that he has been taught.  The law always agrees with him.”

It’s one thing to argue with a wall, but how do you argue with the voice of God from heaven?  Still, Rabbi Joshua stood up and said, “Lo bashamayim hee.  It is not in heaven” [Deuteronomy 30:12]. 

What did he mean by that?  He was quoting a verse from Torah that we read this very morning in which Moses says, “The Torah which I command to you is not hidden from you or far away.  It is not in heaven, that you should say, ‘Who shall go up to heaven, and get it for us?’ …  No, it is in your mouth and in your heart to do it.” 

The Torah, argued Rabbi Joshua, was given to human beings to understand and interpret.  Once given, God has no say on how the Torah is interpreted.  Rabbi Joshua claimed that not even God can overrule a majority of rabbis.

This story from the Talmud, as you might imagine, is a favorite among liberal Jews today.  Just as the rabbis of ancient Israel used this argument to justify their interpretations of Torah, even when they appeared to differ from the tradition they had received, contemporary Jews cite this story to defend the changes in Jewish tradition that we regard as important to our evolving understanding of humanity and the needs of our times.

For example, for two thousand years, there was no such thing as a female rabbi.  When the first woman rabbi was ordained, how was the change from tradition justified?  “Lo bashamayim hee.”  The Torah is not in heaven; it was given to us.  As the roles of men and women have changed, and as our understanding of the rights and dignity of all human beings has changed, we have changed our interpretation of Torah to include the possibility of women as rabbis. 

There is not a single mention in the Torah or in the rabbinic literature of a same-sex marriage.  How then can today’s rabbis justify reciting the seven wedding blessings to sanctify the marriage of gay and lesbian couples?  “Lo bashamayim hee.”  The Torah is not in heaven.  It is for our own hearts to discover the highest values of the Torah, and how to express them in the realities of a changing world.

This radical view of the right of human beings to interpret the Torah is entirely endorsed by the Talmud itself.  In fact, the Talmud says that one of the rabbis who was present when Rabbi Joshua declared “Lo bashamayim hee,”  later encountered Elijah the Prophet and asked him how God had responded to the rabbis’ ruling.  Since Elijah is the only human being who ever went up to heaven alive, he is the only person who could ever give a first-person account on earth of the events in heaven.  Elijah told the rabbi that when Rabbi Joshua said, “Lo bashamayim hee.  It is not in heaven,” God laughed.  God laughed with joy and said, “My children have defeated Me, My children have defeated Me!”

Like parents who take pride in a child who has grown mature enough to surpass them in ability and achievement, God delights in human beings who make the Torah their own and who take on the responsibility to interpret it in accordance with its basic principles of justice, compassion and reverence.  It is with naches that God says, “My children have defeated me!”

Yet, what of Rabbi Eliezer?  Should we forget about him and his devotion to the “old school”?  In his defeat by the majority rule of the rabbis,  do we just label him as hopelessly out of touch with the changing ways of the world?

Listen, please, to the rest of the story of the Oven of Achnai — the part of the story that liberal Jews usually leave out.

The Talmud says that on the day that the rabbis ruled against Rabbi Eliezer regarding the Oven of Achnai, they brought all of the things that Rabbi Eliezer had ever ruled to be ritually clean and they burned them in fire.  Having defeated him in one case, they triumphed over Rabbi Eliezer’s past arrogance and tyranny by vacating all his other decisions regarding ritual purity. 

And then they went even further.  The rabbis voted to expel Rabbi Eliezer from the sages of Israel. It was only after they voted to expel him, though, that they asked, trembling, “Who is going to go and tell him?”  They remembered what a fearful thing it was to disagree with Rabbi Eliezer.  Would they all be struck blind? 

It was Rabbi Akiva, the greatest of the sages of that time, who understood that the consequences could be even more dire than blindness.  He said, “I will tell him.  If he his told by someone who does not understand how this must be done, it will bring about the destruction of the entire world.”

What did Rabbi Akiva do?  How did he tell Rabbi Eliezer that he was no longer welcome in the House of Study, the place where, from his youth, he was always the first to enter, the last to leave.  How did he tell him that he no longer had a home in the place where he had sat so many years listening to the words of his teachers?

Rabbi Akiva went to pay a visit to Rabbi Eliezer, as he had done many times before.  Only, on this occasion, he dressed in black and sat close by his beloved colleague and teacher.  When Rabbi Eliezer asked him, “Akiva, what’s going on? Why are you behaving this way?” Akiva answered as diplomatically as he could.  He said, “My master, it seems that our colleagues have decided to remove themselves from you.” 

Even with such diplomatic wording, Rabbi Akiva’s message was devastating to Rabbi Eliezer.  He tore his clothes and took off his shoes as if he were in mourning.  He slid off his chair and slumped on the ground, tears flowing from his eyes. 

According to the Talmud, at that moment, the world was struck by a plague.  A third of the olive crop, a third of the wheat crop, and a third of the barley crop were ruined.  Lest anyone imagine that this disaster was caused by some natural occurrence, the rabbis further recorded that even the grain that had been ground into flour and shaped into dough also was ruined as it was kneaded in the hands of the bread bakers.

In this legend, Rabbi Akiva was worried that the entire world might be destroyed by the disgrace of Rabbi Eliezer, and, in this respect, he was right: the rabbis’ vainglorious triumph over a vexing old man did spell the ruin of something dear to heaven and earth.  Memory, honor, respect and humility were destroyed that day.  Certainly, the world of Rabbi Eliezer was destroyed on the day that the rabbis decided that they no longer had to pay any attention to him.

This is the reason, says the Talmud, why the Oven of Achnai was called the “oven of the coiled snake.”  It was because the rabbis chose to surround Rabbi Eliezer with words in the way that a snake coils around its victim to devour it. 

This, too, is part of the lesson of the Oven of Achanai.  There is peril in too easily dismissing the wisdom that we have learned in the past.  Though we have the right and the obligation to change Judaism with the changing world around us, we must not do so in a way that denigrates the tradition and those who carefully and lovingly preserved it and transmitted it to us.  The problem is not that the world changes; the problem is not that Judaism changes; the problem is in the way we treat each other through changing times.

Contemporary liberal Judaism says that it has the right to reinterpret Jewish tradition in the face of a changing world, and so it does.  We declare that things that once were permitted — like relegating women to second-class status — are now forbidden.  We declare that things that once were forbidden — like same-sex marriages and the inclusion of gays and lesbians — are now permitted. What gives us that right? “Lo bashamayim hee.”  The Torah is not in heaven.  It has been placed in our mouths and in our hearts so that we will grapple with it and rediscover in our times what it means to treat every person as a being created in the image of God.

But that right comes with a warning.  The right to change the tradition is not a right to trash the past.  Neither is it a right to treat the people who disagree with us like trash. We must act with humility when we venture to change old traditions. We must treat each other with civility even when we disagree.

That kind of humility and respect are not often evident in the relationship today between liberal and orthodox branches of Judaism.  For example, the Israeli orthodox rabbinate has used its political power to shut out liberal rabbis from officiating at weddings and funerals in the Land of Israel, and they are now trying to deny recognition in Israel of conversions officiated by liberal rabbis anywhere in the world.  Such behavior is the equivalent of burning the vessels that Rabbi Eliezer deemed ritually clean.  It should have no place in a faith that esteems the right to disagree as highly as Judaism does.

Yet, the most important lesson of the Oven of Achnai may be for our American secular culture.  In recent decades we have become used to the idea that political disagreements justify any kind of personal attack that one can level against an adversary. Listening to commentators on the radio and television, there is such harsh and personal vilification of liberals by conservatives, and of conservatives by liberals, that one wonders how they could be talking about the same country.

Triumph over the other side, rather than seeking policies that are best for society as a whole, has become the basis of our public discourse.  Even if one believes that it is the “other side” that has dripped most of the venom, there is no justification for attacking the integrity and patriotism of people who simply disagree about policies. 

In the story of Rabbi Eliezer and the Oven of Achnai, the walls of the House of Study stopped falling out of respect to Rabbi Joshua, but they did not straighten up out of respect to Rabbi Eliezer.  Rabbi Eliezer said the Oven of Achnai was clean; Rabbi Joshua said it was unclean.  One of them had to be right and one of them had to be wrong.  Yet, it is still possible to treat both with dignity and respect.  We need to learn again how to do that.

If we don’t — if personal attacks continue to be the norm, and if scoring political points takes the place of governing — we will bring about the destruction of our world.  The world of civic duty and the rule of law will be replaced by the world of demagoguery, distrust and disunity.  Already, we appear to have forgotten that getting along with people is one of the basic skills of citizenship.  If we are not careful, we soon will be a society of isolated ideologies in which everyone has contempt for anyone outside their own small circle.

Today, I want to suggest some specific things we can all do to make our society more respectful of difference and better able to address the issues we face with humility:

1) Like Rabbi Eliezer, we should be bold in using “every argument on earth” to persuade others of the things we believe in deeply, but we also must recognize that there is a time for arguing and a time for accepting majority rule.  At some point, the arguments need to end.  At some point, the campaign bumper stickers need to come off the fender so that we can get on with the business of actually governing, not campaigning.

2) We need more practice at actually talking with people who hold different opinions.  The paradox of the age of cable and the internet is that it has made it more possible than ever to listen only to people with whom we agree.  If you have a point of view, “there’s an app for that” — one which will make it possible to hear only the opinions you want to hear.  We need to recognize how dangerous that is.  A free society depends upon a free discourse of ideas, which means we must talk to and listen to people of different opinions.  Otherwise, we will just be driven further and further from each other.

3) The rules of civic responsibility have to be taught from an early age.  We cannot keep teaching our kids that it is okay to hate people because they have different opinions.  However, we do that unintentionally every time we allow our schools to be used as a battleground for ideologies.  Partisan debates about evolution, prayer, merit pay and the separation of church and state are being played out in classrooms with children as pawns.  Instead, we should be using our schools to teach the fundamentals of democracy on which we all agree.  The obligations of citizenship, the skills of public discourse, and the institutions of democracy should be prominent in the curriculum of the oldest democracy on earth.

Times change — and the pace of change has never been faster than it is today.  As we see changes in the world around us, we do have an obligation to change to meet the challenges of the times.  However, we also have an obligation to recognize that some things never change.  Our commitment to the dignity of every human being and our respect for a world that has been given to us as a gift are part of our eternal obligations.  It becomes more important than ever in a time of change for us to be mindful of the fundamental ideals we all share.

No one ever said that Rabbi Eliezer was an easy person to get along with.  No one ever said that building a just and compassionate society is easy, either.  In this new year of 5771, may we face the future and the changes it will bring with courage and also humility.  May we bring wisdom and compassion.

G’mar chatimah tovah.  May you be sealed for a good year.


“Prayer”
Sermon for Rosh Hashanah Morning, 5771
Rabbi Jefffrey W. Goldwasser
Congregation Beth Israel, North Adams, MA
September 9, 2010

This morning’s haftarah portion includes one of the most moving examples in the Hebrew Bible of spontaneous prayer.  Hannah — the barren wife of Elkanah  — prays to have a child.  Hannah was Elkanah’s favorite of his two wives, despite the fact that Penninah, Elkanah’s other wife, was the mother of his many sons and daughters.

Penninah used her fertility — the one thing that she had over Hannah — as a weapon to unleash her resentment for being the less-loved wife.  Each year, Elkanah took his family to the Temple at Shiloh to bring the first fruits of their harvest as an offering to God.  Each year, Penninah took the opportunity to torment Hannah for her infertility.  She would say, “Look, Elkanah has given me so much food from the harvest to share with my children, but poor, childless Hannah only has her one meager portion.”

Hannah just couldn’t take it any longer.  One year, when at Shiloh, she entered the Temple and stood before the altar of the God of Israel.  Tears ran down her cheeks as she silently prayed for a child — a child who would fulfill her dreams of motherhood and who would end her years of humiliation.  Her lips trembled as she quietly made her petition to God: “If You will grant me a son, I will dedicate him to You for all the days of his life.”

The priest, Eli, saw this young woman with the ravaged face, lying on the Temple floor.  He saw her clothes, rumpled from the ground.  He saw how her mouth opened and closed noiselessly.  All he could think was, “Who has let this drunken harlot into my Temple?”  Eli said to Hannah, “How long will you be a drunkard?  Get rid of that wine you’ve been drinking!” 

Hannah, startled by the priest’s accusation, turned to Eli and protested, “Oh, no, sir!  I am no drunkard. I don’t drink wine or strong drink at all!  The only drink I have poured out is my own heart, which I am opening to God in prayer.  Please, do not take me for a fallen woman.  All this time I have only been praying a prayer of my anguish.”

Eli recognized in Hannah’s tears that she was not what he had first imagined.  He regretted how quickly he had judged her, and now spoke to her with kindness.  “Well, then.  May you go in peace. And may the God of Israel grant the request that you have made here.”

The Bible tells us that Hannah’s prayer soon was answered.  She returned to her home and became pregnant with the child who would grow up to be Samuel, the great prophet who would anoint both Saul and David as Israel’s first two kings.

On one level, the story could be read as Hannah’s bargain with God — “If you give me a son, I will dedicate him to You.”  God takes the deal and rewards Hannah with a son.  It is a familiar story and there are many like it in folklore from around the world.  Samuel is the “miracle baby” who is destined for greatness.  However, like many legends, it should not be read only on a literal level.

The point of the story is not that, if you pray hard enough, God will fulfill your lofty dreams.  If that were true, then the opposite also would have to be true — if you have not received the things in life you deeply desire or need, it must be because you are not praying hard enough.  Imagine what a message that would send to modern-day Hannahs who struggle with infertility.

The story is about something deeper.  It is about the human need to express ourselves to eternity.  It is a story about prayer as an expression of our deepest yearnings and highest aspirations.  It is a story of how prayer can help us transform our lives.

There is something within all human beings, I think, that makes us want to be heard.  We want, as Hannah wanted, to speak the great truths of our lives.  Even if we recognize that our lives are brief and our needs are petty compared to the vastness of time and space, we still need to shout out our unique selves and affirm that our pain and our joy, our sorrow and our celebration, our gratitude and our awe all matter and have meaning.

The rabbis of the Talmud, who lived about a thousand years after Hannah’s time, regarded her prayer as the great model of everything that a prayer should be.  From the verse that says that “Hannah spoke al libah” — meaning that she spoke “to herself,” or more literally, “upon her heart” — the Talmud says that prayer should be “from the heart,” done mindfully with purpose and intention.  In the words of Rabbi Eliezer in the Mishnah, “A person who only prays out of habit has not really prayed to God at all” [M. Berachot 4:4].  Prayer must be an act of the heart before it is an act of the mouth.

From the verse that says that Hannah’s lips moved as she prayed, the Talmud concludes that we should make every effort to pray with words.  There is something about putting our best and deepest thoughts into words that helps us to hear them.  Without words, our prayers may remain muffled and drowned out by the roar of our busy lives, and by the internal chatter of our restless minds.

The Talmud observes that Hannah prayed quietly so that only she could hear.  The rabbis say that this shows that prayer should not be ostentatious.  It does not need to be shouted or turned into a display of false piety. Rather, prayer is an inward experience, with words soft enough for us to be able to hear our own souls speaking.  [B. Berachot 31a].

The rabbis of the first century of the common era had other reasons, too, to like the story of Hannah’s prayer and to make it their model for ideal prayer. The story’s conflict between Hannah and the priest, Eli, resonated with them as a metaphor for their own struggle with the kohanim, the priests of the Jerusalem Temple in their own time.

The priests held that the only way to worship God was through the ritual sacrifices they performed at the Temple in Jerusalsm.  The rabbis believed that God could be served equally through the study of Torah and through the spoken prayers offered in synagogues.

For the rabbis, the story of Hannah was their story.  Hannah represented their devotion to spoken prayer.  The Bible depicts Hannah just as the rabbis saw themselves — sincere, heartbroken and loyal to God.  Eli the priest, on the other hand, seems judgmental, arrogant and distant — just the way the rabbis viewed the priesthood of their day.

With the destruction of the Temple in the year 70 of the common era, the sacrificial worship of the priests ended and the rabbis became the clear center of the religious life of ancient Israel.  After that, the rabbis stated that spoken prayer was not only the equal of the Temple rites, it actually replaced them.

As the centuries passed, the idea of prayer as a substitute for the Temple sacrifices began to fade.  By the medieval era, the Temple and its sacrifices were thought of as a practice from a long-ago time, without much pertinence to their own day.  When medieval Jewish thinkers wanted to convince their fellow Jews of the importance of prayer, they hardly ever referred to prayer as a replacement for sacrifices.

Maimonides, the pre-eminent Jewish philosopher of the middle ages, wrote that the purpose of the daily fixed prayers was to improve ourselves.  They serve to train our minds and hearts in the values expressed in the prayers — love of God, ethical behavior, compassion, reverence and humility. Maimonides saw prayer as a discipline that Jews accept as a daily reminder to live according to the highest values and principles of Jewish belief.

At about the same time, Jewish mystics forged their own way of understanding the meaning of prayer.  To the kabbalists, the fundamental purpose of life is to act as God’s partner in repairing the world, which is broken and shattered from God’s original intentions. Kabbalah claims that we can help repair the universe by becoming aware of God’s hidden presence in the world and releasing that presence by performing mitzvot.  According to Jewish mysticism, when Jews pray, we are not just reciting wise and edifying words, we are uncovering the divinity hidden within the universe and releasing it to repair creation.

By looking at the history of Jewish prayer, we see that there is no one way in which Jews have understood prayer.  There has been an evolution in our thinking over time, and there have been — even in a single age — a diversity of ways for Jews to understand what we are doing when we pray.  If successive past generations of Jews have struggled to find a meaning of prayer that worked for them, we too have the right to define what prayer means for us.  So, what does prayer mean for us?

Unfortunately, the society we live in does not offer much helpful guidance in answering that question for Jews.  In American popular culture, praying is depicted as something done by true believers as a sign of unwavering faith in God.  Prayer is usually understood as a request that God do something specific for the person praying, with the understanding that God will grant it if the person and the prayer are “good enough.”

Those notions of prayer don’t really work for Jews or for Judaism.  In Judaism, faith is something that is meant to be questioned, pondered, doubted, shaken and examined.  We don’t do the unwavering thing so much.  Jewish tradition also does not give much attention to the idea that praying is about asking God for things. Over the last two thousand years, the idea that prayer is primarily the spiritual equivalent of submitting a request for goods and services largely has been dismissed by Jewish tradition.

Yet, we need prayer, as much as any generation before us, to express ourselves and the meaning of our lives to the universe.  Perhaps, in our time, we need it even more.

We are living in an age in which we are bombarded by messages about what we are supposed to want.  Whether we are told to want money, power, ice cream, a mini laptop computer, or a really killer set of abs — it’s hard not to feel confused in a society that seems obsessed with the trivial and in which it is so difficult to find clear statements of what is truly meaningful and fulfilling in life.  Prayer could be one way for us to create and develop a sense of meaning in our lives.

What I propose is this.  We can re-envision prayer as a spiritual exercise in which we quiet the voices that tell us what we should crave, and focus our attention, instead, on the things we really need: loving relationships, meaningful work, a sense of purpose, dedication to our values, and a sense of wonder for the miraculous world around us.

This morning’s service began with a series of blessings that include prayers for getting up out of bed, for getting dressed, and for the gift of having a body of organs and arteries that keep us alive.  This part of the service can be understood as drawing our attention to our physical needs, which are the foundation for all of our other needs.

These blessings for physical wellbeing are prayers that we can recite at home on any day — not just in the synagogue — using the traditional text as it appears in the prayerbook or using our own words.  Imagine if you were to greet the ring of your alarm clock each morning with a blessing of gratitude for the gift of being alive, rather than with a groan and an annoyed slap at the snooze button.

The next part of the morning service, called Pesukei d’Zimrah, is a series of blessings and psalms that joyfully praise God.  This part of the service builds on the one that precedes it.  Now that we have renewed our appreciation for our physical existence, we can lift our awareness beyond our physical needs and into an awareness that we live in a moral universe that is shaped by principles, not by personalities — that is energized by our wonder and awe, not by our selfishness.

The service continues with the section called “The Shema and Her Blessings.”  It, too, builds on the previous sections.  The Shema is the central statement of Jewish belief in the oneness of God, and this whole section is a meditation on the nature of God.  We open our minds to the obligations that accompany the gift of our existence — what we owe to others and what we owe to ourselves.

The morning services reaches its climax in the next section, which is variously called the Amidah, the Sh’moneh Esrai, or the T’fillah.  This part of the service, in which we stand before God in prayer, is all about feeling ourselves as a part of eternity.  We take some time, after declaring God’s oneness, to remind ourselves that we are a part of that unity.  We rediscover the comfort, joy and equanimity of belonging to the universe.  We remember that the meaning of our lives is part of the universe’s meaning — that our lives matter.

Now, I want to ask you something.  How would your life change if you took the time on a regular basis to remind yourself — no matter how crazy the world around you may get — that there is a meaning and purpose to your life?  How would you, as a person, change if you regularly and intentionally reminded yourself that your life is a mission to honor your highest values, to make the  world around you a better place, and to lovingly care for others?  How would the way you think about yourself change if you took the time to develop a sense of inward peace and wonder for the miraculous world around you? 

This is why I believe that we can benefit from prayer.  A regular practice of prayer can help us to awaken our hearts to the things that really matter to us.  It can help us join with others to make our community a healthier and kinder place.  It can make us happier.

Hannah offered her prayer for a child in a private and spontaneous moment.  She had no need for a prayerbook to say the right words to God.  All she had to do was to open her heart and allow her feelings to flow. That quiet place of the soul where our deepest yearnings live is the place that we can touch and release in prayer.

Prayer does not require a prayerbook or a prescribed formula to work, but many people find that having fixed prayers helps them find the words that express what they feel in their hearts.  Prayer can happen in the synagogue during regular worship times, or it can happen while we are walking in the woods.  It can even happen while we are standing on the check-out line in the supermarket. All it takes is the determination to listen to the yearnings of our own souls in a focussed and disciplined way.

If you are feeling right now that you are unequal to the task of taking on a prayer practice — if part of you is saying, “Yes, that sounds like it would be good for someone else, but I’m not that kind of person,” I want to let you know that it doesn’t really matter what kind of person you are.   

Psalm 69 contains a verse (v. 14) that is quoted in “Mah Tovu,” the poem the begins each morning service:  “Va’ani t’filati l’cha, Adonai, eit ratzon.” Traditionally, the verse has been creatively read to say: “I am my prayer to You, Adonai, at the time when it is accepted.”

“Ani t’filati,” “I am my prayer,” tells us that all we can really offer when we pray is ourselves — and that is enough.  We do not need to pretend to be someone else when we pray.  We do not need to approach God as if we were saying, “God, I’m not really religious enough to talk to You.  I don’t really believe in You so much.”  None of that is necessary. Just by being you, and speaking your truth, you can become the most profound prayer of all.

This year at CBI, prayer will be the central theme of our learning together as a community.  Already, our Education Committee has made a commitment to launch a new family education program for families with children in first to fourth grade that will focus on prayer and worship.  The name of the program is Avodah, the Hebrew word that means “worship.”  Avodah will give these families practical, nuts-and-bolts knowledge of how to participate in a Jewish service — at CBI or in any Jewish community.  We will learn the traditional prayers, sing synagogue melodies together, and teach our children and parents how to lead different parts of the service. 

On of our Shabbat morning services each month will be a special service for the families in this program, with additional explanation and questions and answers about the prayers.  All are welcome to these services to join us in learning about the customs and meaning of Jewish prayer.

Learning about prayer and learning how to pray as a Jew also will be the topic for adult education classes at CBI this year. We again will offer an introduction to Hebrew course that will focus on learning the vocabulary of the Hebrew prayerbook.  We also will have classes that teach the poetry and meaning of the traditional prayers.  For those who prefer to explore other avenues for making prayerful choices, there will be a spirituality group to explore how meditation, journaling, movement, chanting and drumming can be part of a regular worship practice.

I invite you to come and find out how prayer can help you to transform your life in 5771.  Learn with us as we explore how the words of the prayerbook help us find the words of our own hearts.  Find your own regular practice to help you reconnect with your own highest intentions and aspirations in your life.  Worship with us at our weekly Shabbat services so that we can bring greater joy and satisfaction into our life together as a community.

L’shanah tovah tikateivu.  May you be inscribed for a good year.

“Ashrei: The Jewish Keys to Happiness”
Sermon for Kol Nidrei, 5771
Rabbi Jefffrey W. Goldwasser
Congregation Beth Israel, North Adams, MA
September 17, 2010

The Talmud says, “There were no days of greater joy in Israel than … Yom Kippur” [B. Taanit 30b].

That may seem like a surprising statement. Yom Kippur is usually thought of as a day of suffering, not joy. We spend the day in the synagogue, fasting, and petitioning God for forgiveness. It is not most people’s idea of a day of joy. Yet, the rabbis of the Talmud saw this as a joyful day because it is the day on which the slate is wiped clean, our sins are forgiven and we are given the chance to try again— to make a new start for a new year.

We are happy today because it is our annual chance to notice our life. It is a day to know ourselves—good and bad—and to awaken to our own happiness.

Happiness. Come to think of it, “Happiness” is not the first thing most people think of when they think of Judaism. Even Jews tend to believe that Judaism is a tradition that is focussed on stern moral precepts, intricate legal arguments, and a rather tearful history. But looking past the medieval arguments about how many minutes the matzah must bake, and how many strings the tallit must have, so much of the Torah turns around the simple question, “How shall we be happy?”

It is an important question. A poll by the Pew Research Center in 2006 [http://pewresearch.org/pubs/301/are-we-happy-yet] showed that only a third of Americans consider themselves to be “very happy.” Fifteen percent say they are “not too happy,” and half reside in the murky, in-between place of “pretty happy.” If the most prosperous and successful society on earth, perhaps the most prosperous society in human history, can only get one-third of its population “very happy,” then we know that happiness is a more complicated and more difficult thing than we usually imagine it to be.

And how about you? Would you like to be happier? Do you know what would make you happier?

In the very first psalm in the book of psalms, there is this teaching about happiness:

“Happy is the one who follows not the ways of wickedness,
who stays far from paths of sin.
For happiness comes when you let God in
and make God’s teaching your delight,
when you rejoice in Torah day and night.” [Psalms 1:1-2]

That is not some pious hokum. That is a declaration of insight into what truly makes people happy. It wants us to know that doing what is right is not good just because it is right. It is good because it makes us happy. Doing what is wrong is not just a moral offense, it is a path toward personal misery.

If we are to believe such a statement is true—and I think most of us want to believe, somehow, that a good life is a happy life—then we must be clear that we know what “happiness” truly is. Because if it is just pleasantness, pleasure, and the lack of pain, it is clear that there are many good people who do not have such a life.

“Ashrei yoshvei veitecha od yehalelucha sela.” So begins the most often recited passage from psalms in the siddur. By tradition, three times a day we say, “Happy are they who dwell in Your house. They shall sing Your praise forever.” Three times a day, we remind ourselves what happiness is.

Here, it is clear, happiness is not comfort and it is not just pleasure. It is not a life free from pain or misfortune. Happy are they, come what may, who dwell in the place of eternity. When life takes us up and down and our existence is a mingling of joys and sorrows, happy are they who can say, “It is not in my hands to change what is, but it is mine to choose how to respond. Blessed is the One who makes life what it is, and blessed am I when I live it fully.”

Ashrei. True happiness, deep happiness, is being at peace with oneself, with God and the world.  It is the happiness of making your life a song—Ashrei yoshvei veitecha—a song of praise for the mystery that is the source of life and existence—od yehalelucha, sela—a song of finding what is most real in life and celebrating it.

This is Torah’s wisdom of a happy life. This is what Rabbi Nachman of Bratzlav taught. He wanted his followers to know that seeking God is seeking happiness. He said, “Alway remember: joy is not a mere byproduct of your spiritual quest.  It is its essence.” [Likkutei Moharan I:24]

So, listen. In the blessings that begin prayers every morning the siddur bids us to declare, “Ashreinu, mah tov chelkeinu.” “We are happy! How good is our portion!” There is no notation in the prayerbook that tells us to say this only when we feel it. It is there, facing us on the page, even on the days when we do not feel happy, even on the days when our lot seems hard. It seems that the declaration is not there as a description of how we are feeling; it is there as a prescription of how we may choose to feel.

To some, that rings false. “Can it be so,” we may wonder, “that saying, ‘We are happy’ will make us happy? How can we choose to be happy if the conditions of life are unhappy? Can one just decide to be happy without cause?”

The answer of our tradition is that there is always cause. We live in a world of miracles. We are surrounded by the wonders of earth and sky, of bodies that works, of people to love and to be loved by. It is not so hard to be happy. All we must do is decide that today is the day to open our eyes and see miracles.

Rabbi Nachman said it this way: “If you do not feel happy, pretend to be. Even if you are downright depressed, put on a smile.  Act happy. Genuine joy will follow.” [Rabbi Nachman’s Wisdom, 74]

Many scholars say that one reason why Rabbi Nachman focused so much on happiness was because he himself was clinically depressed. So we are reminded that we cannot talk about happiness without acknowledging that some unhappiness is the product of brain chemistry that cannot be wished away. Still, the idea that we can affect our feelings by choosing to be happy is of value to people who suffer from depression. It is a tool to combat the disease that robs so many people of happiness.

Modern psychology agrees with the idea that we can choose happiness. Why should it not be so? For, in truth, nothing can “make you” happy without your consent. Happiness is not something that can be imposed from the outside. It is an experience that happens within. It is for us to choose.

A study once showed that when people wrote down before going to bed five things that made them happy that day, over time they become happier.  They became more apt to notice the things that made them happy. They became more likely to remember their happiness, even long after the events they felt happy about. So, we say, Ashreinu, We are happy, because we choose to be so.

Have you heard of laughter therapy? People in recovery gather together to laugh—not in ridicule, but in joy—and they laugh uproariously and fully. They find, as a result their immune systems strengthen, their test scores improve, and their cheeks get sore.

And to this, Nachman says, “Finding true joy is the most difficult of all spiritual tasks. If the only way to make yourself happy is to do something ridiculous, do it” [Likutei Etzot, chapter on Joy].

So, try it. Choose something, a practice for each day that will make you feel happy. It can be prayer; it can be laughter. Let it be meditation or dance—yoga, jogging, singing or listening to music. Just let it be joyful. Remember to breathe. Remember to smile.  Remember to laugh.

It sounds so simple, yet it is hard to be happy in a world that has forgotten how. How many people believe they do not deserve to be happy! How many believe that happiness must wait until they are older, or until they have reached some goal at the end of an unhappy journey! If happiness is not now, it is not ever. A path of chosen suffering cannot lead to joy.

We have gotten so far from understanding happiness we sometimes cannot remember what it looks like.  We confuse it with other things. So many people confuse money with happiness. We see a big house, a fancy car, expensive jewelry, and think: “that person is happier than I am.”

It is not that money is irrelevant to joy. Money can let you have time to do things that bring real happiness.  But, money by itself will make no one happy.

We all have seen people who have little who enjoy what they have, and we know people who are wealthy and miserable.  Economists and psychologists confirm the hunch.

A study this year [http://www.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2016291,00.html] shows that Americans’ happiness does increase some with the money they make, but only up to a certain point—$75,000 a year.  Beyond that, no amount of money will make you happier.

Despite what so many think, there is no reason to believe a millionaire is happier than an average professor, or engineer—a real estate broker, or physician’s assistant.

Regardless of your income, there is a very good chance that you think that money can make you happier, more than it actually can. And if you have reached that magic mark of $75,000 a year and you still think that more money will make you happier, you probably are heading toward disappointment.

Still other studies show that it is not the absolute amount of money we make that affects our happiness. It is how our income compares with that of the people around us. In America’s suburbs, you can be existentially unhappy living in a sub-par mansion surrounded by modern-day castles, while you can know serene contentment, surrounded by poverty, just by having enough food for your family.

If happiness is not money, how does one get it? How do we cultivate that sense of Ashrei? It is all about what you need, what you have, and what you want. Happiness is in knowing the difference—knowing the difference between the things you want and need, and the things you want, but should not have.

The rabbis teach: “Eiza hu ashir? Who is wealthy? Hasameach b’chelko. Those who are happy with their portion” [M. Avot 4:1].

We try to teach this idea to our children when we talk to them about food. In my family, we say, there are two types of hunger—“mouth hunger” and “tummy hunger.”  Mouth hunger you feel when you want something yummy and sweet. You think about how good it will feel in your mouth. Deserts are delightful, as every child knows, but eat too much and pleasure turns into unhappiness.

Tummy hunger is hunger for nourishment—foods that make you feel satisfied and well. Tummy hunger seeks pleasure of a different type. It is the pleasure of health and of wholeness.

We teach children the distinction so they will be able to tell the difference between hunger for candy and hunger for a meal. We teach them so that in time they will notice “Mouth hunger” is never really satisfied. One candy bar does not make you not want the next one. But “tummy hunger,” when satisfied, brings the joy of contentment. In noticing that, children can learn to make wise choices about what they eat.

Of course, the lesson is about more than food because, as adults, we have many different hungers to satisfy. As adults, we have to make wise choices about things like money, sex, prestige, relationships and community. There are things that we want that are good for us and the people around us, and there are things that we want that are bad for us and for the people around us. When we chase after things because they are momentarily attractive to us the cost to our happiness and the happiness of those around us can be much greater than a tummy ache.

Like the children we used to be we, too, have to learn to distinguish between appetites that lead to satisfaction and happiness, and appetites that lead to disappointment and misery.

We also realize that when we teach our children about “mouth hunger” and “tummy hunger” We are actually preparing them for the tougher choices they will make as adults.  We are teaching them how to be happy.

On Yom Kippur, we review the choices we have made in the past year. We try to notice the choices we have made that lead us to happiness, and the choices that have lead us away from it. When we do that, we can notice what we try to teach children, That the things that make us deeply happy are the things that bring us closer to others, that make us feel useful and productive, and that make our lives feel meaningful.

In our own community, here at CBI, we try to create experiences that can lead to that kind of happiness. Two months ago, our congregation began to participate in Take and Eat, a program that gets local churches and synagogues to cook, package and deliver meals to homebound seniors one Sunday a month. We do this because the federal program, “Meals on Wheels,” does not operate on weekends, but the hunger of homebound seniors does. We deliver more than 130 meals on the last Sunday of each month.

When we started Take and Eat, we thought we were altruistic.  We wanted to do good for others.  We discovered, though, from the very first time, that the greatest benefit was for ourselves.  It’s fun. It makes us happy. We get together with people we like, we cook up a storm, we play with the packaging tools, we drive through the city, and we hand nice, hot meals to people who receive them with gratitude and joy.

You know how McDonald’s says they sell “Happy Meals”?  Forget it.  They can keep the little plastic toys. They can keep the sugar-coated fries, too.  We’ve got the real “happy meals” right here.  The experience of joy in being a community, helping others, seeing the people we are helping—is a joy that cannot be bought anywhere for any price.

If you want to experience that, too, come join us. Talk to Cindy. She’ll give you a job. If you can’t cook, you can drive. If you don’t want to drive, We’ll let you play with the packaging tools. You will be connected to others; You will feel that you are being useful; You will know that your life has meaning and purpose. And, probably, it will help you feel happier, too.

Happy are they who can say, “It is not in my hands to change what is, but it is mine to choose how to respond. Blessed is the One who makes life what it is, and blessed am I when I live it fully.”

Yom Kippur can be, and should be, a day of happiness. Today we awaken to the things that make for our own happiness. Today we rediscover the joy of doing the right thing, of choosing how we will feel, of knowing the difference between what we have, what we need, and what we want. We make our life a song. Ashrei yoshvei veitecha, od y’halelucha. Sela. Happy are they who dwell in Your house. They shall sing Your praise forever.

G’mar chatimah tovah. May you be sealed for a good year.

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